August 16, 2023

August 13, 2023

Midnight Thoughts of A 32 y/o Lady

If you weren’t invited, don’t go.

If none of your friends told you, don’t ask.

If you got a late invite, respectfully decline.

They had no intention of including you.



Saw this on TikTok, and how true is that.


“We didn’t know you’d want to go”

“We thought you were busy”


Sounds familiar? This totally sucks.

I understand that you’re tired of being the afterthought, the seat filler, the second or even third option.

It makes you question yourself, your worth, everything you’ve said and done.

Maybe I am the problem? It’s not them, it’s me..?


It hurts, but they’re not worth it.

Let’s move on. Just let go.

Know your worth, stay away from unhealthy relationship.

Don’t ever get disrespected and devalued.


Find new circle, get quality friends.

Be accepted, be loved.

Focus on your mental health, and be happy.


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